ive struggled with thoughts of not loving and hurting myself for years. at this point ive been on medication and been seeing a therapist for a few years. it's helped a ton and i no longer feel half as bad as i used to. anyway here's the issue, i can only think about su¡c¡de, s3lf h4rm, dru9s, etc while at work. sure there's a lot going on in my life but i only feel this way at work and it consumes my day. i'm 17 so my shifts are only 5.5-4.5 hours long and the customers arent bad. the biggest downside is im making minimum wage. ive been working here almost 5 months and plan to change jobs once i graduate this year. how do i stop feeling this way and get through my job?
Month: April 2023
I can’t get it off my mind…
Hi, I need advice. I'm from the Philippines and I made a mistake before with a previous employer. I stayed 4 months with the BPO employer. I was offered 27K monthly for a Citi account. I enjoyed the training and was looking forward to the time I'll be the one sitting behind the desk and taking in phone calls. However, it was already 4 months yet they couldn't provide logins. I followed up a lot regarding the logins, and sat like an idiot in Ops, got called as a walking library since I was very familiar with the tools and the resolutions from training. That was the only thing I could do at that time since I wanted to show I am eager to work. Yet I still didn't have logins and the Ops Manager, whenever she got angry, she'd take her anger out on us since we would be…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUbIsfzOjk4 “So you go on and stamp your form, sonny, and stop wasting my time. Because, to tell you the truth, I don't give a shit.”
“always with a smile on his face”
How to not try so hard (Advice Please)
Hello! I am really frustrated and need advice. Please understand I’m in therapy and have multiple disorders and I am trying to not put so much effort into work. I love the actual job. I work with kids with mental disorders and it’s fulfilling. But I’m not getting paid what I should and I feel like the actual wage I wanted is tied behind a different role where they are dangling a carrot 🥕 in front of my face. I am going above and beyond every single day because that’s my disordered self and how I do things but I’m under appreciated and under valued and under paid. Also I’m male and a lot of the staff in my field as well as the managers are all female. I don’t think this matters but just feeling really frustrated. Besides taking care of the kids how do I stop putting so…
This is a job in a restaurant, where I am not allowed to sit all day except during my 30 minute break.
Pre-interview questionnaires
I've applied for a handful of associate-level jobs that are asking for long-form responses to many of the first-round interview things we'd go for. One company asked even for my resume, cover letter, writing samples, references, etc. ALL OVER AGAIN, as well as filling out a 15-question questionnaire they emailed me before an actual interview. After doing all of that, the company did not even schedule an interview for me. Has anyone else on the job search encountered these or just me? If it's just me, that's fine, and just consider this me ranting
This was a large workplace and we used an old time punch in time clock. There were about 35 employees all needing to check in on the same clock. We’d be standing around before 08:00am waiting for our turn at the clock. Sometimes the clock would punch is in at 7:58, sometimes 08:01. This drove our supervisor crazy. The 7 people in our department were told at staff meetings that we needed to clock in at 08:00 exactly. I asked if we were shorting time. No, we were usually right on 8hours or a bit over, but we needed to stop doing that and check in exactly on time. I asked her how we were supposed to do that if even one of the employees took more than two seconds to punch in. This wasn’t her problem. Her problem was having to do the math on our timesheets. We were…