I work in construction in Australia.
I took on a relatively large project for my old company of which they have never done before. Due to covid, staffing and support were slashed, below what any prior projects of even close to size had. Resources that were promised to be designated to the project at my commencement meeting.
Over the six years, hours were increasing more and more. Covering tasks held by others, more and more. Quality of contractors slowly ever decreasing, again further increasing workload and job requirements.
I've been transiting over 2.5 hours (and up to 3.5 hours) a day for over 7 months. The project previous was 4.5 hours a day.
I've found a company whom have an enormous presence in the industry willing to pay me another 25%, with a full site team, not 20 minutes from home.
To say I have been sitting atop the knifes edge on this decision for a long time is an understatement. As much as I wish I could have stayed, it would be at the cost of my health.
I cannot believe I've finally done it. Don't be afraid of change. We are here to work to live, not to live to work.
EDIT: It was you bloody legends here that gave me the courage to finally take the leap. I hope this too can serve as reassurance to others.