My company, which has a wide range of earners, forces each member of the office bring in something for a monthly pot luck lunch. I don’t have time to cook or bake anything since I work two jobs, and if you bring in any store bought food you are generally shamed for not taking the whole process seriously. Any suggestions on how I can go about asking my employer to call these events off? The job itself is pretty good with room for growth so I don’t want to quit but I’m worried I’ll get left behind not being able to keep up with this archaic requirement.