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Want me to take a sick day? No problem!

To give context, my former boss retired, and my company hired a new one with zero knowledge of our business and zero management experience. My father has a neurodegenerative disease (it's somewhat rare, and might give me away if I mention it), which makes him physically handicapped, and unable to drive / walk on his own. He sees a specialist in a big city about 2.5 hours away from us. When he has an appointment, I must drive him to and from the appointment, take him in and discuss our concerns with the doctor. In short, an appointment is an all day affair which I have to use PTO for (sick family time). I work part time in office and part time at home. My company is implementing a new software system for our business. This means that I discuss system requirements via Zoom meetings. These meetings take up about…


To give context, my former boss retired, and my company hired a new one with zero knowledge of our business and zero management experience.

My father has a neurodegenerative disease (it's somewhat rare, and might give me away if I mention it), which makes him physically handicapped, and unable to drive / walk on his own. He sees a specialist in a big city about 2.5 hours away from us. When he has an appointment, I must drive him to and from the appointment, take him in and discuss our concerns with the doctor. In short, an appointment is an all day affair which I have to use PTO for (sick family time).

I work part time in office and part time at home. My company is implementing a new software system for our business. This means that I discuss system requirements via Zoom meetings. These meetings take up about 75% of my workday. Considering the amount of appointments I take my dad to, my former boss allowed me to take these calls while driving, to conserve my PTO. I can participate while driving 100%.

So this conversation happened this morning between me and my boss: (paraphrasing)

Me: Hey, just a heads up, my dad has an appointment in Big City on Monday. (February 14th)

Boss: OK, thanks for letting me know.

Me: I have a bunch of meetings scheduled for Monday, did you want me to join them while driving in the car back and forth to the appointment?

Boss: Are you a main speaker at these meetings?

Me: Yes. rattles off list of 6 meetings and explains 1 or 2 reasons why I am needed at each

Boss: Well, it's probably best if you just concentrate on driving and just enter PTO for the day.

Me: OK, I can do that.

Boss: If there's anything pressing, I'll call you and we can discuss.

end

If any potential issues are not pressing enough for me to participate while driving, there won't be any issues pressing enough for me to take care of if I am needed.

Rant over. Thanks for reading. Felt good to get this off my chest.

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