Ant-Man ended up being the final straw for me to quit my extremely shitty job today. I've posted the full back story below (previously asked via FB/Reddit) to give more context. It's been an absolute nightmare. Facts as relative to this group: I am a Very Big Fan of Marvel and bought tickets for the 17th the day they released. I mentioned the 17th as being my only required day off for the first half of 2023 in my December 2022 interview, hiring interview, onboarding, several meetings and worked 8 hours overtime to cover the day off in February so that I could afford to take it off without anxiety while also making sure that a day off for myself wouldn't fuck over everyone.
It's been approved for weeks. Today, my counterpart admin associate told me that she unapproved it and I would be working it.That's a big fat fuckin no from me. I worked the remainder of the day, worked through lunch and gave notice at 4:05pm. Looks like I will be going to see Ant-Man afterall, Laura.
It was a very very nasty scene but I a) got it all recorded (1 party state) b) new ex-boss called me a petulant bitch of a child. I simply told the other admin that today was my last day and that I wish her the life that she deserves. Told my EX boss that today was my last day, effective immediately, right before he left for a transatlantic flight. Enjoy that flight, fuckface.
Context- previously posted asking for advice:
TL/DR: should I quit without notice, tax season sucks ass.
I am truly at my breaking point. I joined a CPA firm at the beginning of January for substantially less money (20k less than I was making previously) with the tacit understanding that after one month, I would be evaluated and compensated. The language is in my initial contract and signed job offer. The other associate admin is very bitter and spiteful towards me for no reason – since day one. I was hired to help her specifically and she gave me training only for the first day then pushed me to the deep end. We have been clashing hard this past week because I asked for expectations to be clearly stated since she essentially abandoned me then punishes me for not knowing procedures/CPA law.
The job that I signed on for doesn't exist. I am FT scheduler, maid, cookie maker, stocker of goods and papers, shredder (of totally miscellaneous boxes upon boxes of docs from boss' wife), kitchen attendant, bookkeeper, paralegal, personal assistant (to 8 people), tech support and file clerk…to name a few. I was told that I'd be handling administrative duties, phones/emails and largely ensuring that procedures were followed by the CPA firm. 100% was not hired as an Office Manager. I truly feel like I have been bamboozled.
All that to say.. I am in misery. The bullying from other adults is so weird. I have a few friends in the office but several of the CPAs treat me like garbage that lives to do their dishes and clean up after themselves. My sobriety (5 yrs) has been mocked and I have been offered lots of drinks on the job. If I were in early sobriety, relapse would have been guaranteed. I could handle everything that I listed as my duties above…..IF I was compensated fairly. Is that unreasonable?
I went to my boss today (1 month plus working there) and brought up our tacit agreement that I would be getting a substantial pay increase once I “proved my worth”. He shut that shit down immediately and informed me that 1) I won't be eligible for that conversation until after tax season is over (April)….oh, and… 2) It's about to get twice as busy and I should not waste his time with this conversation when I could be collating files or shredding the backlog from the annex.
I'm fucking done. Not only is he never going to pay me as promised – my workload is about to triple.
I guess other than ranting (thanks for reading if you got this far), I am trying to figure out if I should just cut my loses and quit this week (Interview scheduled for tomorrow that is v promising and 20k more than currently making with this job) or do I hunker down and knock out two week's notice? Petty me wants/needs revenge but I feel like it would be on the innocent CPAs to deal with all of the blowback. I have never quit a job before without notice – always two weeks given.
Does anyone have suggestions? Commiserations? Comments? Concerns?
I'm just…not being valued as an employee or an individual…and that sucks. I don't know what to do.