My boss speaks to me in a weird way, like calling me smelly when im not (her excuse was its for the image) i think she shoulde made sure first. She has said things like “why dont you bring your shops to our shop? You dont have any?” She is obsessive over mistakes . She bosses us around like she owns us, she tells me “you're coming tommorow” not “could you come?” It may sound exaggerated here but sometimes an employee genuinely cant cover. She disrespects my wishes and made fun of me for saying i will need to go to my school next week since I have official exams – she's rude and she's petty like a child.
Yesterday I “made a mistake”(which I'm sure my coworker helped in happening) and she says things like aren't my issues at home/ personal worries and life worries enough? This is a CATASTROPHE! We just couldn't use whipped cream.
She just speaks like a child when I say I cant go to work (its usually a night prior due to our irregular schooling in Lebanon) like accusing me of intending it and having no ethics towards her business. I'm a 17 year who hasnt been in school since November because of my country's circumstance and she made me skip.
Not to mention she always says she's a boss and orders me around but I'm a barista not her maid even in the shop. I think her and the other employees take advantage of my kindness. She once got things to be carried into the shop and the other owner, a whole man, told me to go take them from her and they weren't light little things. I brought in one and then she disappeared leaving me the rest, I thought I was helping turns out I'm doing all the work but that's just a plus.
And yesterday I sent her a long message detailing my coworkers actions towards me that have made me hate and distrust them ( didnt say it like that) as well as her disrespect and I wasn't too sweet myself. I told her by the end that her attitude as well as my coworkers needed to change or I'd leave immediately. Naturally she got upset and told me I was being delusional and sensitive etc… she would send me like 6 7 messages after one another and I'd barely reply, wanting her to just shut up. The next 3 days I have a PM shift and it's a holiday season. Another barista who is abroad and a complete and utter b*tch (shes paying me since Im taking her shift. I get paid by day since Im an extra.) Gave me her shifts and I took them because I need some money to start my own baked goods business.
I left immediately yesterday, archived my chat with her and another barista with the AM shifts ( who i once demanded my tips from but got left on read and never got them ). I feel bad, Am i wrong?