I am so pissed and am trying to just wrap my head around everything that happened today, please excuse my rant. I went to my manager (has been remote and when you try to reach her mia) she has been semi-present for a few months) to ask a question and long story short the conversation went well until the very end when I was about to leave. She told me that we need to have a sit down with the owner. I have been with company for 2.5 years and he has been present maybe 5 times (body, not mind) (nobody cares about your wife Jennifer) currently in Florida vacationing, told us all about how he works so hard, even when he is in Florida he works till noon. Work ethic is important that’s what his Dad taught him when he took over the company and everyone needs to be on time (our last meeting was re-scheduled 3 times, with our entire staff) once we finally had it all he talked about was COVID and how it isn’t going anywhere and his retirement, he has an 11 year plan blah blah lol how he is getting another assistant and his son will take over the company and how more or less how we need to make him more money, these assholes don’t show their face when I am ripping out my hair the other 7 months out of the year and my family life suffers (met his son 1 time in the parking lot after he finished a golf outing). I wish I had recorded it. He sounded like a big douche. I can’t even imagine what our new people thought He actually said “I contributed $170k to retirement for the employees the last 5 years” I looked around the room and just couldn’t believe that (25 plus employees) fuck off dude! (He has other business in a neighboring state) that he cares about much more than us, but you think you are the only one that can do simple math?! So back to my conversation with my manager. She said we need to talk about your vacation and are going to reduce it. She said I’m getting to much vacation for the amount of hours I’m working. (Background) When I was hired I told owner that I had x amount of clients and they would follow me. Every single client is still with me and brings so much revenue I pull my weight 10 fold. Our understanding was I work when it is busy and I will reduce hours when it is not win/win (he asked me to be salary and I said no (knowing from experience they will work you to the bone) I have a child and want flexibility) Win-win! You would think! No, everyone else at my job works/is there, chats for a few hours throughout the day, but I show up, bring my own clients, get my shit done, don’t milk the clock and leave and am getting about to get my fucking vacation/sick time PTO fucking taken away because I only average 36 hours. I told her “so I manage my time, am hourly (you save money)!and I don’t milk clock and am willing to do whatever to get my job done and you are penalizing me and going to take away some of the only sanity I get, my time with my family!!!” I get a month, that includes sick etc… I worked throughout this whole fucking shit show with a child (worked and homeschool) and had COVID from home (never got time off when I was miserably sick) to make sure you didn’t have to lift a a finger. Fuck you, you miserable bitch!!! AND my generation is the problem and we don’t want to work?! FUCK YOU BITCH!! I’m sorry guys I’m so angry.