I work with 3s and 4s and about a month ago my boss admitted to telling my coworker not to come in if she whenever she was annoyed with her and didn’t like what she was doing. Me and my boss have been rubbing the wrong way last week and she told me not to come in Friday for no reason. I’m also burnt out, don’t get a lunch break, the kids don’t listen to me, and the kids don’t nap anymore. Sometimes I’ll go on my phone when it gets peaceful and my boss does that too. Wednesday I didn’t hear my boss when she called my name so yesterday she was all annoyed with me and passively telling me all I do is sit on the couch, I don’t clean right, and I don’t seem to care. She also comments on whether my lunches are healthy or not, overshares, gossips, and keeps saying she’ll open the baby room for me but it hasn’t happened. She then proceeded to give me yesterday off and told me nothing happened. I went in to get my paycheck and she wrote me up for being on my phone and not taking initiative. She was never clear about that. The only times I was on my phone was when she was on hers and she was never clear on whether or not I’m the lead teacher or not when she’s in the room. Also, my coworker is terrible and has never been written up. Then today when I came back to work I heard from the 9 year old and 7 year old that my boss was talking crap about me. I didn’t mind the gossip, but she needs to watch what she says in front of children. I can’t take this anymore