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UPDATE: I understand the points about sharing info, I don’t think it was understood why I was wary. I DID, however, decide to share how much I was making, choosing to trust this particular coworker who helped me, to add to her knowledge of the company and ability to assist others, as she does. Thanks all for your input. None of your business! I started a new job recently and recently interviewed for a new position in the company. Got the job (yay!), and other coworkers are asking me how much I make, including and most persistently someone who helped me as I researched and prepped for the interview. I’m making about 50% more than my direct peers and not sure about the girl who helped me. I generally don’t feel comfortable talking about money being made, and I always thought this was a hands off topic, unless between friends.…


UPDATE: I understand the points about sharing info, I don’t think it was understood why I was wary. I DID, however, decide to share how much I was making, choosing to trust this particular coworker who helped me, to add to her knowledge of the company and ability to assist others, as she does. Thanks all for your input.

None of your business!

I started a new job recently and recently interviewed for a new position in the company. Got the job (yay!), and other coworkers are asking me how much I make, including and most persistently someone who helped me as I researched and prepped for the interview. I’m making about 50% more than my direct peers and not sure about the girl who helped me.

I generally don’t feel comfortable talking about money being made, and I always thought this was a hands off topic, unless between friends. How do I politely respond? I’ve already tried to give answer non-answers at attempts to find out, but now I’ve been asked point blank and I have no idea how to answer.

One thing to note is that part of the company is unionized, so yes, unionized jobs have the pay displayed. My job will not be unionized, hence there being more curiosity as to my salary and benefits.

Would super appreciate some advice on responding without burning bridges. I truly appreciate her help and want to avoid any drama. Thank you!

Edit: to clarify: 1. I’m working a completely different position than others.
2. The others are unionized and are used to a culture of knowing each others’ information. I know I’m new here but I’ve observed it as a platform for gossip.
3. I’m happy to help others get what they deserve, but I also don’t want to be the person they look at differently for making XXX dollars for a job that is different.

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