I’ve been seeing these posts and finally the last straw is breaking my back today.
I had an issue with a team lead not over me making promises that I would do certain things. What she promised was more on a discretionary judgement call that should be left up to the individual working the case. After things got escalated I was talking with the president of the company. His advice was to apologize to her, right or wrong. This was mainly because where I work is predominately female, and woman owned.
I’m a straight white guy and understand that we are bottom of the pile in the world at this time.