i told two people and they said i was overreacting and he was just trying to get a rise out of me. am i wrong to be bothered by this “joke”?? he has “edgy” humor and is a known drunk like a few days ago called someone who had quit drinking a loser. im sure (i hope) he really was just joking but i dont feel like it’s appropriate especially to be like “you know what i mean? i just want to experience it see what its like thats my goal someday”