Sorry if this isn’t something to be on here, but really need to know from other people point of view on this.
In my own personal prospective. I have felt that he has always picked on me with everything, especially if I’m doing something he doesn’t like, even to the most minor things. (Example: Clicking the button multiple times for the water to fill up the dishwasher) As there been times, clicking the button once has not made the water fill up the washer.
His attitude towards me, is very poor. Feeling has if I’m not intelligent enough to do my job properly. Also riding on me for everything, and comparing me to himself and others. So this eventually builds a lot of stress has it constantly continues through the weeks.
On February 14th 2022, Monday night. Sand, as usual proceed to keep his attitude towards me. When he asked if I heard him, I did quietly say yes and shake my head up and down. Then he comes up to my face, asking if I heard him. At this time I was standing at triples. I said yes, sorry that you didn’t hear me. He claims that I didn’t say anything. So I responded I did say something. Then he walks away, and I turn back mumbling to myself, saying for fuck sakes. (Only from the stress he’s putting on me)
He turns back asking what I said, putting himself 5inches from my face. He asked what I said. I told him I said “Sorry that you didn’t” Cuts me off, by screaming “You said fuck” in my face. I then proceeded to tell him to back up, with him giving the response of “what are you going to do about it? You going to run to chef and tell him?” Then he proceeds to shoulder bump me, and walks away. I tried to calm myself down from the situation, and then really wanted to know what his situation was with me. I was tired of the attitude all the time. So I asked him “What is your problem with me. Then he rushed up to me, with his nose on mine. Screaming in my face, you want to know my problem with you. As he takes a step back. I responded “ Yes, I want to know your fucking problem. Constantly giving me attitude” He responded “You going to let me speak? You want to know my fucking problem” I responded “Yeah, I want to know what’s your fucking problem.” At this point, he puts his face pressed against mine, screaming in my face with no mask, body checking me. At this point my brain blanked out. I worried that he was going to attack me, so I was in defend mode. Hoping he doesn’t punch me, since he was already pushing me. Everything in last bit of it, I don’t remember anything.
Would this situation cause me to get fired from my job? I didn’t touch him, nor scream. He was the only aggressor, and showing violence towards me. There was two other co workers there to witness. But they kept their heads down and quiet avoiding everything.