Am I selfish for wanting to live on my own terms? I honestly don't mind working but I just want to live my life for me and I feel like others perceive me as lazy because of that. I'm an atheist and I don't want to spend the only life I have cramped up in an office, stressed out of my mind, and hardly getting time to myself. Is this normal to feel or am I just selfish with my time? Honest opinions wanted please, trying to figure out what I want to do in my life.