So im an EMT working part time 45+ hours a week. My husband works full time 60+ hours a week. We can afford a house but cant find one so we live with my parents. We pitch in and have other payments like car, student loan debt, etc. We are still struggling to make any profit… like saving any money is almost impossible. So I'm looking at a 2nd job just to save for our future. Im so depressed and disappointed. I feel like its my fault for not being able to save enough money with my husband and I both working. I feel defeated and stressed and have no clue what to do.