How often were your parents able to take time off to attend events or take you places as a kid? Where they able to look after you when you were sick? When they were there, were they always too exhausted and too frustrated to do things like help with your homework or help your practice for your sports team?
Did you even have to hang around at your parents' workplace after school because there was no babysitter?
What sort of things do you think you missed out on because they couldn't be there?
What are the most important things for you that you want changed so you can be part of your own kids lives?