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Lost my job very suddenly the other day, wanted to talk about it somewhere

For obvious reasons, I'm going to try and keep most of this fairly vague. For the past few months I've been working remote for a company that I had, for awhile, thought was pretty great. They also seemed to really appreciate my work, said I provided insight they really needed, etc. Trouble started about two months ago, when I was faced with a possible emergency that would conflict with a meeting. I let one of the meeting coordinators know about the possibility beforehand. I did end up being late. The next day I had another meeting that my calendar didn't notify me about. Manager talked to me about how he had to report both incidents to HR (even after I specified I had warned a meeting coordinator about the issue with the first incident) and continued infractions could lead to termination. Things seemed to be going ok, great even as…


For obvious reasons, I'm going to try and keep most of this fairly vague.

For the past few months I've been working remote for a company that I had, for awhile, thought was pretty great. They also seemed to really appreciate my work, said I provided insight they really needed, etc.

Trouble started about two months ago, when I was faced with a possible emergency that would conflict with a meeting. I let one of the meeting coordinators know about the possibility beforehand. I did end up being late. The next day I had another meeting that my calendar didn't notify me about. Manager talked to me about how he had to report both incidents to HR (even after I specified I had warned a meeting coordinator about the issue with the first incident) and continued infractions could lead to termination.

Things seemed to be going ok, great even as I got more comfortable in my role. I had a lot of great feedback both from people within the company and those outside we worked with. Then, just yesterday, I get called into a meeting about my “performance issues.” Infractions that had apparently been reported to HR without my knowing included: Leaving a manager meeting slightly early (my partner got a call from his work in the same room, I told my manager about the issue but was fine finishing out the meeting, and my MANAGER asked if I wanted to go ahead and just end the call), not having a report done in time for another meeting (a report I relied on someone else to finish) and leaving another meeting slightly early (I got disconnected for a minute and tried to reconnect, and when I did nobody was in the room, and nobody asked where I was, so I assumed it just wrapped up when I disconnected anyway).

Bringing up these explanations did nothing, because the decision was already made.

I was honestly so confused throughout the process because as they were firing me they kept going on about how I did amazing work, I was very skilled, and many of them were happy to offer glowing references for me at other jobs. And the whole time I'm thinking, then why are you firing me?

I worked my butt off and already have other interviews lined up. But I just still don't understand this at all. I did wonder about discrimination, because I was the only person at the company who fell under a specific classification, but I have no proof that this was actually a contributing factor. I know there were several times other people were late to meetings we were jointly running or had various tech issues, and I never reported that to HR, because why on earth would I?

I guess I would just want some perspective. Is what they did reasonable? What sense does it make? Maybe it's pointless to think about that but I can't help it, considering I'm now scrambling to make sure I can pay off my bills this month.

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