I work as a barista and am transgender, I just got word from a coworker who is also transgender that my manager was deadnaming me to a manager from another location in our coffee shop chain. I have not used that name in years and it’s only connected to me legally. The manager from that store told my coworker because she was pissed about it and he told me. How do I go about this? Should I speak to the other manager she deadnamed me to? She’s already said multiple transphobic things. There is another transgender coworker who is not out to our manager (you can see why) who said our manager told him “You’re the only man man around here” (the only three men who work here are me and two other transgender men including himself), implying my other coworker and I are less men for being transgender.