I hate my job. One of my supervisors insult me a lot, my manager made me join a work group chat, where they have to submit “daily reports” and they micromanage every single thing I do. The daily reports are also kind of humiliating, because my supervisors have to communicate any mistakes people do (making a drink wrong, making the wrong kind of tea, etc.) in the group chat. I do want to quit, but I’m not sure how that will look, and I’m scared of confrontation. My sisters tell me that I shouldn’t even give a two weeks notice and just tell my boss that I won’t be coming into work anymore. Problem is, my boss is nice to me and asks me if everyone else is nice to me. They’re obviously not, but I don’t want to get into any trouble if I snitch on them. I don’t think that he would do anything if I told him anyways, because the supervisors have been there way longer than I have. I feel like if I told him that they were making me cry, he would tell them that I told him that and they would act even worse towards me.
I can tell that my supervisor doesn’t want me to tell the manager either, because after yelling at me and calling me stupid and spoiled all day, she spends the rest of the night at closing telling me about how she’s actually friendly and that I shouldn’t take her seriously. She tells me to “be tough,” but I just don’t really know how to. Whenever the other supervisor is around, they speak each other in mandarin (I think???) and the only time they speak english is when they’re taking an order or talking to me. This wouldn’t typically bother me, but when they’re working with me it just makes me feel confused and excluded. I want to quit so bad. But I don’t know what to do.
Some things to note:
– I’ve been working here for 4 weeks (they tell me I shouldn’t be making mistakes anymore)
– I haven’t gotten my first paycheck yet (minimum wage per hour, given at the start of every month)
– I haven’t signed any contract yet (they keep asking me if I have, I say no, and they just keep forgetting to make me sign it)
– This is my first job ever
Most of my shifts are with my supervisors, and whenever I’m around them I just end up doing my worst and making the same mistakes because of the constant yelling and talking down to me. They’ve also made me come in last minute on my day off once because of a mistake my manager made in the schedule. I have no idea what to do. My sisters, and all my sister’s friends tell me to get out asap, but I’m just not sure how.