There's this coworker who I hold a big grudge against. She's 55 and I'm 28. I'm the typical timid, quiet girl and she's the literal opposite.
She has made degrading comments about me, gossips, and rolls my eyes whenever I ask her anything. I've vented with my boss and even he says she's a bitter person.
She always dresses up (with high heels and all) and puts on a lot of makeup even on Sundays. She says she does let her husband see her without it. I don't wear any and she's told me I should do it because ladies should always look their best. I told her my husband loved how I looked like this to which she replied “Ewww how uglyyyyy”
She gets off by everyone telling her how good she looks and is super flirty with all the male staff. She even started talking to a guard that this other girl said she liked.
Once I also had the decency to cover for her 6 weeks while she was out for surgery (fyi nobody wants to cover ME) and she told everyone she had to return early to work “to clean up the mess I was making with her work” mind you, everything went smoothly. She just wanted to return since it was unpaid leave. I also reported this gossip to my boss.
I can write a book with everything she's done to me, how often she would bully me and made me cry. It's just fkd up because she could be my mother and my mom would never act like this highschooler.
Management won't do anything everyone's used to the toxicity in my department they even give warnings to new girls.
I'm about to quit so I want ideas on how I can get my revenge or if I should just gtfoh and forget about it.