I’m 22 MTF
First off I was off the day of the meeting
The co worker who told me has been fired now but he was causing a lot of drama for a lot of people so I guess it is justified but his story was confirmed by half the team, the part of the team that was on my side about the trans meeting
So today I came in, they told me once I clock into go in the office and both the main managers (the ones who supposedly said they wanted me gone) asked what the soon to be x co worker had said, I only told them what they already knew and they fired him.
They had a talk about my trans ness and I explained it’s not a choice and tried to explain all I could and they said they understand that’s fine and to just not come to work dressed that way because customers would judge us for that and I said it would be a long time before it’s noticeable but until then I’m fine going boy mode
They still don’t seem to fully understand just yet
My brain is all scrambled and I’m stressed and worried they fired him for telling me and maybe now they are trying to get me fired at a later date
Really not sure what to do about this now I’m still going to try to get a free consultation as others suggested as a just incase to save my ass and my job
I like it here, just lots a drama 🙁
Side note: They also told me the down stairs where I work was a wreck, I said there’s no way I did everything perfect and even said there’s no way they could complain and then they told me the oil filters weren’t fully stocked
That’s a super minimum problem but they said they were going to write me up for it but figured since all this drama (now x coworker) has caused maybe that’s why my performance since the (meeting date) has dropped so much
I know they could tell I was stressed depressed and agrovated but I swear my performance did not suffer so it makes me worried they are still trying to gaslight me into thinking they have reason to fire me
from today on im videoing my entire work area every day after I clock out and we close and ensuring it shows everythi needed to be done has been so