I have a coworker that I have told I have a disorder but she keeps acting like me not eating lunch with them makes me not a team player. She keeps saying I'm not a team player,, she keeps micromanaging and criticizing every little thing I do, she's caused panic attacks and laughed at me for them. I stood up for myself once in a calm way and she threw a tantrum and said I was yelling at her. This has happened twice. The first time I was pulled in to my bosses office and they made me sit through a panic attack while I was hyperventilating so she could vent her tantrum. She smirked at me when I tried to remind her a had a disorder.
This happened again and management just keeps saying they're “coaching her” with her behavior. I'm looking for other jobs but how do I handle her abuse in the meantime?