Yesterday was women's day, as part of the HRs BS rules, each department head had to give their female employee a rose and a chocolate sent from the HR. My boss handed it to me and my worker and shook hands with us. When he did, he clenched my hands very tightly and looked my straight into my eyes. I said thank you sir, but he wouldn't let go. I told him that the hand shake is actually hurting me and he responded with a “you need to be stronger” and didn't let go for a good couple of seconds. My hand and my wrist hurts. And I am furious. It's not about the pain in my hand but the audacity with which he thought he could actually fucking do that. I don't feel safe around this man. Today it was an aggressive handshake, tomorrow he could beat me up when no one's looking. Who's to say. Thoughts?