It’s funny how people will literally tell you their life story to try to convince you to trust them. Be their therapist for a whole fucking year and then get thrown under the bus when someone else fucks up. Why tell me all about your drama if you’ll turn around and be a dick? I really don’t care that your spouse is mean or how hard your divorce is, and now I have no reason to listen. And it’s not like they were trying to gather up shit about me, just throwing their dramatrauma into the middle of my day.
Don’t trust them, even if they seem trustworthy or need you more than you need them. The amount of fuckery your coworkers can pull even if it’ll bite them in the long run is astonishing.