There's really no way around it. The world is an insane place, and having a child means the insane society will inevitably condition your children, that's why school exists. School is also just preparation for wage slavery, Just being alive isn't enough to earn your child the right to have access to basic things like food, water and shelter. They'll also have to sell their soul at some mindless job for these things. This job will probably end up giving them a sense of purpose, because most people have no idea what to do with themselves when they're not at work. Unfortunately for them, they are easily replaceable in their employer's eyes.
People define themselves by their jobs, but they don't really enjoy what they do and only do it because our society makes it so that your choices are either sell your self in some way, or basically starve to death.
“Nothing is better proof of how far humanity has regressed than the impossibility of finding a single nation, a single tribe, among whom birth still provokes mourning and lamentations.”
― Emil Cioran