I am in a tough spot right now. I’ll keep things short by saying I’ve started a new job and I’ve been harassed and bullied by my team. I tried to resolve the issues with the team myself, only got worse. I finally brought the issue to the attention of my boss. She said the coworker bullying me has a good heart; and that her piece of feedback for me is that I should have come to her sooner. That immediately put me off that I was open honest and vulnerable about a bad situation and she gave me feedback. Then a few hours later she chatted me to tell me she’s sitting down with every member of my team to ask the if they feel the same way I do. WTF!!! Am I wrong to feel like this is so wrong? It is so clear the issue is about me, as a member of my team messaged me asking if I’m ok..and my main bully canceled all meetings with me…I just feel like that’s so messed up.