Last week on Thursday I was the victim of a home invasion while at a friends, had a gun pointed in my face and felt like I stared death in the eye the whole time during the ordeal while trying to not lose everything I on me or my life. Ended up having my phone, keys, wallet and car stolen. And my glasses smashed by the guy pointing the gun in my face. I was also on call that week, and I got called after they took my phone. I had to crash that night at my friends place since I didn't have keys to my apartment anymore or a way to get home and I felt a lot safer sleeping somewhere with other people after literally getting my entire life pretty much upended by this. After sleeping that off and getting a ride back to my apartment complex I went to the main office to get someone to come unlock my door. Well had to get the lock drilled but it's whatever. I was super focused on just getting home so I could 1. Feed my Cat 2. Cancel all of my credit/debit cards so they couldn't touch my money. 3. Call work and let them know what is going on. I login to my computer and open teams and see an irritated message by my Admin about how I missed a call and he had to get called because of it. Tried to reach out to him first but got no response. So I went to call my Manager on Teams so I could tell him what happened. Well when I call he can't hear me, but I can hear him talking and well he goes and says. “If he's not gonna call me on my phone, he can come in and tell me.” He then sends a message on teams. “Call me on my desk phone.” I responded with “I can't come in or call, I got robbed last night.” He reads it aloud and that's when I hear two other people in the room with as he reads this aloud. One voices some semblance of empathy saying “Hope he didn't get roughed up or anything he's a small guy.” The other voice goes, “Damn, that makes since why he didn't pickup last night, wonder where it happened coworker said he lived in a bad neighborhood.” The person he was referring to didn't say that btw, he said my apartment reminded him of a of a 1970s motel. And the neighborhood is pretty safe just not wealthy like the neighborhood he lives in. Then my manager makes the comment “A Girl could rob Dave_The_Nord.” Dickhead in the room with him makes an additional comment “You should've seen the size of her!” adding onto the joke. I just ignore it cause I just want to get done with talking with him so I can have my friends come get me and we can do something together to get my mind off the fact that nearly died Thursday. I just tell him I have to get my stuff together so I need today off. Monday my manager tryed to Bully me into working as soon as possible, even though I literally still don't have a phone, car, wallet, debit/credit card. He said this to me in that conversation “The expectation of work is that you work period.” and “You can work from home.” I wish I could quit but I'm under contract for another year and if I break it they want to me pay 5k….. fuck! Hope everyone's week is going better than mine.