I’m sorry, I know this will not be popular here but work is so shitty you deserve to celebrate. Fine, don’t celebrate America but if you like grilling during summer, grill. If you like fireworks, set off fireworks (safely). If you wanna drink beer and play horseshoes or whatever, do it.
Enjoy your life! It’s rare you get a chance to.
If you can do that and withhold spending, awesome. If you can do it and make a heartfelt case to the red voters in your life about voting out the people who allowed Roe to be overturned, then do it.