(Not sure if this belongs here?)
So I'm in Texas and here it's mostly a Hispanic community (myself included).
I work with this woman (56) who used to be in housekeeping but moved into office recently. She's kinda like the lady that's worked there forever, and everyone likes.
She spanks women “playfully” every now and then, including HR. But this is the second time this week she spanks my butt.
Today she tried to get off the chair but she fell right back and I couldn't stop laughing. She spanked me in front of my boss and I just felt awkward.
I don't know how to tell her not to do it because last time someone told her something she got really mad and held a grudge with that person. (She was calling another coworker “gorda” which means fatty and Hispanics use this word all the time. She said “Why don't you eat tamales? you're already a gorda).