I have started a new job, I have done the training and been doing shifts. I'm on my second week and at the end of my shift yesterday one of the new management said 'can you go to another building tomorrow for training ?' And then this other management woman said 'you must to go tomorrow' she basically shut off the question demanding I go. I was told the night before, and I only had that day off and was working for a week without a day off. I said I'll probably forget and I'll write it down and then I just didn't show up.
I just don't like how she spoke to me and I'm too shy to stick up for myself so I just didn't go. Thing is I was emotionally abused and manipulated in my last job for 2 years. I was demanded to work every single day and a lot of unpaid work. It caused a lot of trauma and now I don't want to be walked all over again. This job is nowhere near as toxic and bad but I just have high standards and not being told I have to do something when it's my day off because I was really taken advantage of before.
Now I just don't know what to say when I turn up to work tomorrow.