I don't know how to explain that eight months of dealing with someone being rude, insensitive, cruel, manipulative, two-faced, micromanaging and domineering has finally worn me down. I've given up sitting in silence and taking all the crap, working the job of three people and still being expected to do more. Not worth it!
Today might not have been that bad…
…but that doesn't change the fact I was awake until almost 3am stressed about having to be in the office alone with this particular person, does it?
I've been off with stress, then back to work, then off with physical health issues resultant of said stress, all for this very reason.
I'm jolly well surprised that I was in today, but the job itself is reasonable – main issue is with another human there.
I don't know how to explain that something doesn't have to have happened every single day for me to be affected. That's just not necessarily how toxic/bad behaviour happens…