idk if i can post this here but ive been working at a small startup of approx 30 people for almost 4 months now and i think i am the only one who doesn’t give a shit about after-hours socialization. i like most of the people i work with. they’re nice people and it makes getting through the day a little easier. however my office culture is very centered around things like happy hours, game nights, and other activities where people will stay at the office getting drunk until 8-9pm. i just don’t give a shit about it. i like seeing these people every day but when i’m done with work i want to go home. it seems like this mindset is generally looked down upon by my coworkers and i get comments and slack messages every single time i skip one. i’ve gone to a few of these “events” and i would just rather be anywhere else every single time. we have one tomorrow evening and im searching for any reason to not go that won’t get me chided (even jokingly) by my colleagues. please tell me i’m not crazy lol.