I want to wake up to the sounds of the ocean waves crashing, not an alarm clock. I want to leisurely start my day — which has an agenda tailored to my pleasure: private pilates session, relaxing poolside, shiatsu massage — instead of constantly being told what to do at work. Then I doll myself up for my husband in the evening, with my most taxing decisions of the day being what to wear and whether to get my hair blown out at the salon rather than having to make decisions at work that effect the lives of others.