When I applied for this job I initially thought it would be a good segue into therapy/psych internships since part of the description is helping clients become independent as possible. Essentially I assist with chores, setting up medical appointments, errands, etc. I’m also there to listen and be easy conversation.
My very first client was a walking red flag. Manager even told me he seemed like he’d be difficult. I had just barely finished training, and sure enough, we ended up having to drop his service because he was far to aggressive, regularly missed our set appointment times, blamed me for it, and said awful things when I stood up for myself.
This most recent incident was so disappointing to me because I genuinely liked my client. I looked forward to helping him run errands and set up apps on his tv. Now all I can think about is how he called me “good girl” and called me his “girlfriend” then asked me not to tell anyone when I said that was inappropriate.
Even more disappointing was my managers reaction. “You shouldn’t have continued your conversation.” I kept everything I said professional. Not a word of it could have been misconstrued.
So I’m expected to continue working with him until something similar or worse happens. I don’t plan on waiting for that to happen.