Both my wife and I work. Pretty good paying jobs. She is a school psychologist and I am shop manager. But we will now be totally fucked. Rent is $2700 a month and child care is 4k. Just those 2 things is going to bankrupt me. I am trapped. Can't quit to stay home almost not worth it to stay. I want to have them in a good daycare instead of having some rando watch my baby and toddler and that is just the going rate around here. I already have picked myself up by the bootstraps and the system has crushed me.