This might be mutli layered with updates as there is a lot to unpack.
In 2016 I stupidly attended a meeting with an organisation my parents are involved in. I've been to a few of these stupid meetings before but at the end of this one a member motioned to appoint me to a leadership position they desperately needed filled and no one was having a bar of it.
Essentially I was press ganged into it. It's my fault entirely. Hands in the air I should.habe said fixk to the no. I agreed on two simple and easily solvable conditions. It's for 6 months only and you resolve your legal issues without delay..Everyone nodded their heads and agreed.
They didn't even wait 24 hours before dog piling into me with their piss poor attitudes and failings that went back for over a decade.
First off the rank was getting some contact details for each member which is a legal requirement. I didn't know these people well at all but managed to track one down with Google and left a message with their office to please call me with my name.and number. Nothing else as to what it refered to. She called me and went fucking septic on me. Like really nasty stuff.
Anyway dog has arrived so will update later