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Older coworker keeps belittling me/frequently yelling over little things. I am disabled and triggered.

I am dealing with a difficult coworker. I have anxiety, depression, adhd, ptsd from an abusive relationship I JUST got out of, and high blood pressure. I am also atheist. All of which my boss knows. I am constantly having to deal with her second guessing my answers and equally as much raising her voice and being very negative towards me for any little problem or decision I make. She intersects rudely into conversations I am having with my boss frequently because we have an 'open office' for 'team communication'. Today it was so bad I had to leave the office to get away from her reaction as I was fighting a panic attack. I've talked to my boss repeatedly and hr a few times. When i took it to HR, they requested we have a sit down meeting. My boss even recorded the entire conversation and said to come…


I am dealing with a difficult coworker. I have anxiety, depression, adhd, ptsd from an abusive relationship I JUST got out of, and high blood pressure. I am also atheist. All of which my boss knows.

I am constantly having to deal with her second guessing my answers and equally as much raising her voice and being very negative towards me for any little problem or decision I make. She intersects rudely into conversations I am having with my boss frequently because we have an 'open office' for 'team communication'.

Today it was so bad I had to leave the office to get away from her reaction as I was fighting a panic attack. I've talked to my boss repeatedly and hr a few times. When i took it to HR, they requested we have a sit down meeting. My boss even recorded the entire conversation and said to come to him with future problems. When I discussed this with my boss today he simply brushed it off and didn't address it. I've asked multiple times for a separate office because of my disabilities and her constant disturbances and been denied more than once.

I am on the verge of quitting as the stress and inability to tolerate this treatment has affected my mental health to the point where I was and am missing work frequently and put on probation. I dispise the idea of continuing to work with her and dread going in every day.

What do I do? I just want peace. I've been looking for other jobs but nothing has stuck yet.

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