I worked at this place ( doctors office , owned by her, no HR Dept. and no other long-term employees.I stayed this long bc I knew, no one could tolerate my boss. Text book narcissist, amongst many
Other personality disorders that will go undiagnosed, bc she’s a doctor. Anyway, I worked 7 years- applied in a nurse position , which then become nurse and medical secretary, then nurse med. secretary and office manager. And also somehow the cleaning crew? So I applied to do one job and it morphed into me doing the work of 5 people:.. again, there was no HR department.
Within this, she did not want me to take days off to see a doctor , so she basically forced me to let her take over writing ny prescription and having her be my primary care.
Also within this time, my mother and fa
They both died – I got in “trouble” for taking days off for the funeral, and everything that comes with a person dying . But not Actual days to drive but days to get affairs in order since it was sudden. Fast forward to June, my fiancé died (the love of my life, which is different the. Your family dieing bc iS like you choose them above anyone else in the world. I asked for days of to mourn as I said “listen , I think I have ptsd” my entire family is dead, now my lover is dead…I need to take a couple days off. Now, she had planned to take 6 weeks off in June and I would be alone at the office diagnosing and treating patients alone for 4 hours a day ( all of June and 2 weeks of July) prior to this I told her , when u return I need to take a few days off.
Now July 18th my first day with her back, I reminded her “I’m taking tom. And the 20tH off) her response , I just took 6 weeks off. How can I make money without u here” so I said ok that’s it, we are no longer a good fit. Her response “your mother , brother and father left you.. and now your boyfriend…where are you going to go. I’m all you have” keep in mind , my brother and mother were murdered in my family home, my father died of cancers year later and my fiancé died in June from a seizure- blunt force trauma. They all left me in body bags… it’s not quite the same as getting
Broken up with or having a bad relationship with your family – they all died in tragic ways, basically in front of me and I continued to go to work.
Now this was the final straw.. why u may wonder? Bc those 6 bc weeks she was away and I was diagnosing and treatIng patients, she only paid me for 4 hours a day. Now keep in mind , I only saw patients for 4 hours a day:.. but I would then have to chart , make calls , appointments , deal with emergencies , call pharmacies etc. so on average for those 6 weeks I worked 7-8 hours 4 days a week. She altered my hours when she called in payroll to only the 4 hours a day so I literally couldn’t afford to take the days off!!!!!! Like That is some spiteful shit……
Anyway, I got a doctors note from
An urgent care that said “return to earth park 7/25” so I didn’t come in but offered to the 25th. But she’s a nUt so she screamed and yelled and said I abandoned my job although I had documented proof that I didn’t ….
So after 7 years, I deserve
Unemployment I put up with her shit for seven years when no other employee could stick for more than three days the entire HR department left it was literally just her and I. The thing about unemployment is it doesn’t come out of the employers pocket I have paid into it over those seven years so of course you know I deserve it I’m not planning to skate on it for months but a month or two I deserve it so I apply I get it she appeals it she makes up a whole bunch of things like fired for the drugs fired for this fired for that they you know then asked me to reply I gave them proof all of that was fake they sided with me Then I get an email that says all employees or employers have the right to appeal twice and she is appealing twice and you know will forward you with a court date so she wants to take a day out of my life and her life to schlep to court over money that doesn’t affect her at all.
Now, do I have to get a lawyer?
I mean, the thing is I wouldn’t have taken
My little Unemployment and she would’ve never heard from you again but now that dragging me unemployment court over absolutely nothing..::: now I’m mad.
See, when people quit the typically have health insurance for 30 days- she cut mine off that day.
Also bc I was her patient , she cut off my meds which when u discharge a patient you must give them 30 days of refillls… she did none of those things.
How shall I proceed in the most finically sensible thanks and sorry for the rant.