Two years ago I decided to stop telling employers why I needed days off. I am so tired of overly entitled “managers” trying to decide which part of the human experience is acceptable for me to experience. One of my kids has a birthday? I’m not working. I ate too much in the middle of the night? No work.
When pressed about the why I simply state, “I’m very sorry, but it’s personal.” If they continue to press? “I can’t, I’m sorry.” Press more? “Listen, I can’t be there.” No more responses. Three strikes and done. Haven’t been fired in two years.
These people KNOW they need us. Don’t let petulant adult-babies control your life.