The problem with Most Employers/Bosses is that they think hurting yourself for the job is a good thing/shows a good worker. NOT

These bosses are mistaken. People need to learn how to separate work life and personal life easily which makes them perform better and becomes trustworthy employees long term. I have seen many shady practices and back-stabbing employees even those who made close $200k simply because their work life messed up their personal life.