I’m 18(F) and I work for a very well known resort/hotel company. My 1 year is coming up I am a pool attendant, which means I have been working there since I was 17. I got my mother 38(F) a job there as a server. Everything was going well and everyone liked her, she only worked 2 days every week. My manger, we’ll call him Tom, a director, started to make comments to me about my mom and at first I played it as a joke because that’s what people do sometimes, THEY JOKE. He then started making advances to my mom and she told me about it. She obviously politely declines and tells Tom she has a boyfriend. Eventually she gets a call from a number she does not know saying, “Hi this is CENSORED, Tom’s friend, he gave me your number and I have seen a picture of you and I’m interested.” My mother never gave her phone number out to anyone, which means Tom gave it to him. My mom was starting to feel uncomfortable and more and more remarks were made. We then went up to HR to file a complaint with everything that had happened to the both of us. Tom has said racist, sexist, and sexual comments to me while I was working there. The first thing HR said to us was “why wasn’t this said sooner.” Which I get it but, I never had the time and I thought nothing would be done so I left it alone. Either way we still gave HR the exact dates when each incident happened, HR had a rude tone while speaking which made us feel like they didn’t care nor believed us. Long story short, Tom went on administrative leave for a couple days and nothing happened to him. Ever since then Tom and the assistant manager we can call him Paul, have not been talking to me and have been scheduling me less hours. I recently turned 18 and had finally met all the requirements to serve. They told me months ago that I could serve when I turned 18 and now that I have asked they have come up with every excuse not to make me a server and I have patiently waited even after the entire 11 months of being told to wait. They just hired a new server who now has the shifts I could’ve taken but apparently there’s no room for me. I feel like they’re going to try and fire me soon. I don’t know what to do. I cant go to HR and I cant go to another manager.
UPDATE: I got fired today 8/22/2022