My project manager I'm working with is very old school..I complained to him about not wanting to work on a project because I didn't want to be out In the field for 5 weeks and I sent him a teams message saying this sounds miserable and I don't want to do it and he said this type of behavior would get me fired.
He then said, our career is a small community (civil engineering) and that if others called around (if I were to apply to new jobs) he could tell them about me. He's basically suggesting I could not get a job elsewhere because he would tell people about my “attitude problem” for not wanting to do a project.
I'm pretty sure him saying that is not legal does anyone have any advice