Hi (20F) Had a massive cry about my hospitality job yesterday and my bf urged me to quit and look for another.
It isn't a bad job. I just don't fit in. All the waitresses are older and been in the area longer whereas I am an awkward age and don't gel w anyone super well though Im polite to everyone. I'm new to the area and a casual worker, looking to make connections at work but I still feel uncomfortable around the crowd there. Unfortunately ive been sticking out this anxiety inducing environment for 6 months.
The thought of interviewing and being the new girl again elsewhere makes me horribly overwhelmed but it could be for the best…It is quite a prestigious restaurant/ cliquey unwelcoming workplace and I feel like an outsider there still. I've never felt this way at a job.
Anyway just needed to vent.
Any advice on how to brush it off and have a better attitude towards getting a new job would be much appreciated as the experience at current job has made me feel quite disheartened.
Also any stories of this happening to u or similar and it ending well would be appreciated đ thanks