Hi all, I got written up at work, almost fired, and trying to move past it. When clocking out, one of the employees mentioned how I was written up. I was taken aback since I haven't told anyone, and I had asked where they heard it from. They said that the day manager had told them, “I had been moody lately, probably because I was recently written up”. I feel like this confidentially information and I am embarrassed and upset. I will not bring it up to the manager that told, since she was involved in the write-up and obviously doesn't care. Should I tell the main manger, the executive director, or go to the 3rd party?