I started a second job at a hotel a few weeks ago. It has not been going well. One of the problems that literally everyone complains about is that the manager is a total asshole (which I have absolutely experienced; just today she chewed me out for not being able to work a shift tomorrow that she gave me FOUR HOURS NOTICE on). I've been told by some of the other staff that she's the reason many people over the last year have quit, at least partially leading to the short-staffing crisis that necessitated hiring me and many other new people.
She is there six days a week, from 9am to 9.30 – 10pm, without fail. She's been working at this hotel for nearly 30 years, has no family, no friends, and, from the sounds of it, just no life outside the hotel at all. She's a total asshole, and I get why everyone hates her, but if I was working that much, I'd be a total asshole too. Don't get me wrong, she works that much because she chooses to, and this is all of her own making – I just feel sorry for her.