not sure what to make of this scenario, Im working on a project with my boss and this other coworker who i’m not her favorite. I was asked today by my PM a question about the project that I wanted clarification on, so I reached out to this other coworker to ask the question given she is the owner of the project. instead of answering me she puts the question in a group chat with myself her and my boss with the excuse of clarity. my boss then tosses in the chat “he’s such a mess ” (yes emoji included) I see it obviously but as quick as it was sent she deleted it. then a few minutes later tosses in a half ass “ik you’re taking on as much responsibility as you can we’re all doing our best” I just thumbs up it and say thanks trying my best sorry for the mess.
not sure how to proceed I asked 3 friends their opinions and they were
1 confront her and ask what the mess is
2 do nothing find a new job and quit
3 work 2x as hard for the next few weeks drama isn’t something worth quitting over
opinions? never dealt with this before