These type of bosses really just need to go away. They don't need to be in your personal business.
Say that you call out because you have an emergency or need to leave work because of an emergency. Why do they feel the need to be like “what's going on? What's so important that you need to call out or leave work?” Like dude, just butt out. I have a freaking emergency going on and need to deal with it ASAP. It's none of your freaking business.
I have two lives. A work life and a personal life. They need to be separate. Absolutely no need for them to be together.