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Co-supervisor said I tried to fight her.

I've been taking her toxicity and abuse, plus the toxicity of the rest of the supervisors who I can't even talk to sometimes. Eventually one day when she was pissed off she again was being toxic (she talked to me in a demeaning tone) after I asked a question on how to go about doing something so I said “Why are you talking to me like that, I'm just asking a question”. Later on she says that I tried to fight her. I chose to leave that place because I don't want to work with a woman who is going to claim that I'm trying to beat her up… For the past month I could barely talk to her. Sometimes she would ignore me and I'd have to ask again — and knowing that she hates me, I still responded as if nothing has happened. One time, I asked her…


I've been taking her toxicity and abuse, plus the toxicity of the rest of the supervisors who I can't even talk to sometimes. Eventually one day when she was pissed off she again was being toxic (she talked to me in a demeaning tone) after I asked a question on how to go about doing something so I said “Why are you talking to me like that, I'm just asking a question”. Later on she says that I tried to fight her. I chose to leave that place because I don't want to work with a woman who is going to claim that I'm trying to beat her up… For the past month I could barely talk to her. Sometimes she would ignore me and I'd have to ask again — and knowing that she hates me, I still responded as if nothing has happened. One time, I asked her how to do something and she was angry claiming that “It should be in the email we sent you when you first got hired.” As if I should know absolutely everything about a job I've only been at for 3 months, when I have to do something new that I've never done before, I must be taught. I look in my email and find nothing. Then she angrily sends me the link in an email.

It's been a month later and I still don't have a job. Money's running dry. I don't know how I'm going to explain this gap in my work history, it's just another problem to deal with. I'll always have to explain what happened and now that I'm falsely accused of something like this I feel like there will be repercussions going forward… I don't want to tell everyone that some woman made a false accusation against me. I know some of them will think I must have done something to deserve it, or even did.

They all were cruel towards me and would always interpret everything I do as negative or aggressive, but nobody else says that about me. I'm not sure what to do exactly but I don't think there's anything to do anyways. It's ok for her to hate me, but for her to make a false accusation like this is crossing the line. I don't think there's anything I can do since I'm not rich enough to hire lawyers. The company basically ghosted me as far as I can tell.

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