I’m constantly being asked to spend money. For example, last week we were expected to bring something for a Thanksgiving potluck. Next month someone is retiring and they are asking each of us to bring in food. I have to spend money on a Christmas party gift and Secret Santa gift exchange. We were recently asked to bring in gifts for a coworker’s engagement and another one’s wedding. We were asked to donate money to someone’s retirement party and someone’s expenses after a family member passed away. And HR asked us to donate our PTO so someone could have a longer maternity leave. On top of that I’m expected to decorate my office space for every occasion/holiday. I don’t even spend this much on my own family. This has all been in just a matter of a couple months. And I don’t make a lot of money. If you don’t contribute, it feels rude. Does anyone else have this experience in an office setting?