Like don't. Don't ever pull that shit with me. Don't tell me I've got the job, and that I did so well, you know exactly where to put in me in your organisation with my skillset. Because now, I've turned down other job offers, and I have made preparations around this job. Don't tell me you wish I'm successful in future, don't tell me it was a hard choice, tell me why you specifically told me I got the job, exactly where I'll be in the organisation, that you're giving the reccomendation to an existing team, and then not give me the fucking job. Shit is absolutely crushing.