I swear my manager has an issue with me so much as HR has been involved.
I personally think he has an issue with me but have no clue why. I cant ask this man questions without him catching an attitude, giving me a dumb facial expression, or him getting so worked up he goes off. And i currently dont even ask him much, especially with the dynamic thats been going on.
Ive never had an interaction with someone like this. Mind you ive been at the job for a few months, and early on this started.
Communicated to him about it, i was very professional and it didn’t do anything. Second time my HR and Director got involved. Third time my director got involved and HE got HR involved.
TODAY during our dept meeting, just me, my manager, and director having an open conversation about the departments goals for 2023 and this man took what i said, which had nothing to do with him on a personal level and got triggered that he showed his attitude and frustration openly in-front of our director. Like he kind of went off and was aggressive with how he was speaking and cut himself off saying “i cant say anything or ill get fired”
Every incident ive been extremely professional. Ive had to walk away once because he was being that extra and was legit getting close to me and i believe he was “trying” to intimidate me. Which he didnt but at that point i was internally heating up.
My director doesn’t have a solution at the moment but he is concerned about it obviously because its am unhealthy work environment.
Im 26f and served in the military and i feel like i have thick skin, professional and compose myself very well but each incident that has happened gets my anxiety going and internally im shaking.
Idk i just needed to vent.
I also loosely use the term “my manager” because i report to my director not the manager.